Fear, failure, anger those are my invisible monsters. Well they are invisible but at the moment when one would have me in its grip, it would be very real and therefore visible to me. Today we shall unveil the funny little monster known as failure.
We all have tenuous relationships meant to test us and help us grow if we allow ourselves to see whatever challenge we may be faced with at any one time as an opportunity for growth. If you don't then you are either dead or an angel, in either case good for you! My particular tenuous relationship has far reaching tentacles for it is not one that I can just put down and walk away from or at least that’s what it seems to me for most of the time. It finds ways to poke its insidious tentacles into my life when I think that I have everything under some semblance of reasonable control.
On this particular day or past couple of days to be more exact I had been embroiled in a seemingly never ending pit beating myself up over why “I had failed” to get through to this particular test of mine. No matter what I did, there was always an underlying feeling of not being good enough, not meeting undefined expectations and a pervasive hostility that I could feel even with the social distancing protocol. The fact that I could feel hostility over the ethers should have been enough to let me know that the issue was larger than myself. But remember that “victim” mentality we previously spoke of? It came and made itself quite comfortable and here I was like an obedient little slave asking what’s wrong with me? Why am I not good enough? Foolish questions as it were that led me absolutely nowhere. Then I realized, no its not me, it never was! I had tapped into a vast pot of hostility and made it my own. I reached for the easiest reference in my personal history and validated energy that did not belong to me. Time to unplug and I did just that.
If you are currently feeling sad, afraid, angry, guilty or some other random energy that does not resonate with who you are, stop yourself and ask what percentage of this is actually mine? Listen to the answer that comes to you from the depths of your being. If you hear 80% that is a good thing, celebrate it otherwise put a halt to all that does not serve you and is coming from the Collective Consciousness. It will all be ok have faith.